If a husband is unsaved, is he still the head of a saved wife?

Question:

I have read your Bible Study on marriage and was indeed enlightened. However, I still have a question. I will be as brief as possible and hope that you will understand what I am trying to ask. The Bible states that the head of every man is Christ and the head of the woman is the man. Does this statement also include men who are unsaved?Continue reading

Why are there restrictions placed upon those who are divorced and remarried?

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Question: I have been divorced and my wife has been divorced before our current marriage. We have been following the Lord and I believe I been called to Pastor. I made my mistake of divorce before I was born again believer, I have repented of my sins. I believe the Lord has forgiven me and I want to Pastor a Church. Has the prodigal son has returned to do the fathers work? Or am I going against the word of God if I do Pastor? I have studied two different schools of thought (and been preached to from both sides) what is your thought?Continue reading

Does the Bible say that men and women are equal?

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Is there a verse in Genesis that explicitly says that men and women are equal? I was reading Genesis some time ago and I think I came upon it, but I can’t find it now.

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The word equal is not found in the Book of Genesis. The first time that the word equal is used in the Bible is in Job 28:17. The word is used 21 times in the Bible.Continue reading

Who is supposed to pay the bills in the home?

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Question: If my wife makes more money than I do, is it okay for me to tell her to pay all the bills. I decided to pay only the mortgage of $750.00 and the child care for my 3 year old daughter mother by another woman while my wife pay for the groceries; private school for her 13 year old son; my car note and her car note, as well as the car note for the automobile she purchased as a birthday present for me; all utilities are paid by my wife; etc. Bills total over $3000 per month and my only contribution was $750.00. I say was because I lost my job in October of 1998. I acquired part- time employment in December and started a new job in January 1999. Although I made over $5000.00 during these two months I did only only contributed $1500 to expenses.Continue reading

In a bad home situation, would it be better for the wife to leave, and remarry someone nicer?

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ONE OF YOUR PREVIOUS ANSWERS STATES THAT GOD DOES NOT APPROVE OF WOMEN DIVORCING THEIR HUSBANDS.AND THAT IT IS WRONG. WHAT ABOUT A MAN? ISN’T IT WRONG FOR HIM TO DO THE SAME THING. AND WHAT IF A MAN IS BEATING A WOMAN AND THEIR CHILDREN OR IS COMMITTING ADULTERY WHAT IS THE WOMAN SUPPOSED TO DO JUST LET THESE HORRIBLE THINGS HAPPEN TO HER. WOULDN’T IT BE BETTER FOR HER TO LEAVE HIM AND FIND SOMEONE WITH WHOM SHE COULD BE HAPPY AND THAT WOULD TREAT HER AND THE CHILDREN AS THEY DESERVE?Continue reading

Didn’t Moses allow divorce and remarriage?

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Thanks for taking the time to read my question. I’ve noticed in several places you have answered the common questions of “can I marry this divorced woman” with one scripture, every time. Isn’t it true Moses allowed re-marriage & divorce? I believe some of the reasons this was allowable was because the husband did not provide for the wife, the divorce was allowable if there was adultery, and a few other things. Just curious! Thanks.Continue reading