Holy Greetings. I came across your web site and thought I would comment. In reference to your should divorced people preach? I am divorced and do preach. I was not saved when I got my divorce and am now repented and remarried and will be getting Ordained and Co-Pastoring a Church. Jesus Christ himself said that all manner of sin shall be forgiven except blasphemy of the Holy Ghost. All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, even Pastors and Bishops and many people will sin or fall short before they reach heaven, that is why we have the Blood of Jesus Christ to help us in a time of need. I am not for sinning but rather unto a Holiness life consecrated unto Jesus, but I do feel that it is ok to Preach the Gospel if you are repented and are running for Jesus. Nathan did tell David that God was going to set a sword upon the house of David and Jesus came out of the line of David and REDEFINED the sword in Ephesians. God Bless and thanks for your web ministry.
As born-again Christians washed in the blood of the Lord Jesus Christ, and trusting in His righteousness alone to save us and keep us saved, we are but unworthy sinners of such grace shown to us. Psalm 39:5 says, “Behold, thou hast made my days as an handbreadth; and mine age is as nothing before thee: verily every man at his best state is altogether vanity. Selah.”
God gives man a chance to do right, and if man will not, then God acts accordingly, and hands down judgments and laws for future incidents. In the case with Cain, God let him live, but with certain consequences. Genesis 4:8-15 says, “And Cain talked with Abel his brother: and it came to pass, when they were in the field, that Cain rose up against Abel his brother, and slew him. And the LORD said unto Cain, Where is Abel thy brother? And he said, I know not: Am I my brother’s keeper? And he said, What hast thou done? the voice of thy brother’s blood crieth unto me from the ground. And now art thou cursed from the earth, which hath opened her mouth to receive thy brother’s blood from thy hand; When thou tillest the ground, it shall not henceforth yield unto thee her strength; a fugitive and a vagabond shalt thou be in the earth. And Cain said unto the LORD, My punishment is greater than I can bear. Behold, thou hast driven me out this day from the face of the earth; and from thy face shall I be hid; and I shall be a fugitive and a vagabond in the earth; and it shall come to pass, that every one that findeth me shall slay me. And the LORD said unto him, Therefore whosoever slayeth Cain, vengeance shall be taken on him sevenfold. And the LORD set a mark upon Cain, lest any finding him should kill him.” But after that incident, and others, God set down a law in regard to it. Genesis 9:6 says, “Whoso sheddeth man’s blood, by man shall his blood be shed: for in the image of God made he man.”
It is the same way in regard to marriage and more than one wife. In the Old Testament, many men had more than one wife, but that was never God’s will, and Jesus made that plain in Matthew 19:3-6 says, “The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause? And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” Notice that Jesus went back to creation for the answer to their question. God created one woman for the one man — that was God’s perfect will and plan for man.
But the Pharisees were not happy with Jesus’ answer, so they questioned Him further. Matthew 19:7-12 says, “They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife,
it is not good to marry. But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother’s womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven’s sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.” Jesus made it plain that it was only because of the hardness of men’s hearts that Moses allowed divorce at all, but even that was misused by men, so Jesus was calling them back to God’s perfect will and plan.
Because of the leadership in the Old Testament being led away into sin by more than one wife, and the turmoil that was brought into homes and nations because of man having more than one wife (consider the turmoil in Abraham’s home, and the world today, because he listened to Sarah and also took Hagar to wife — Genesis 16:1-5 says, “Now Sarai Abram’s wife bare him no children: and she had an handmaid, an Egyptian, whose name was Hagar. And Sarai said unto Abram, Behold now, the LORD hath restrained me from bearing: I pray thee, go in unto my maid; it may be that I may obtain children by her. And Abram hearkened to the voice of Sarai. And Sarai Abram’s wife took Hagar her maid the Egyptian, after Abram had dwelt ten years in the land of Canaan, and gave her to her husband Abram to be his wife. And he went in unto Hagar, and she conceived: and when she saw that she had conceived, her mistress was despised in her eyes. And Sarai said unto Abram, My wrong be upon thee: I have given my maid into thy bosom; and when she saw that she had conceived, I was despised in her eyes: the LORD judge between me and thee.”
Consider the turmoil in Jacob’s life because of his multiple wives — Genesis 30:1-5 says, “And when Rachel saw that she bare Jacob no children, Rachel envied her sister; and said unto Jacob, Give me children, or else I die. And Jacob’s anger was kindled against Rachel: and he said, Am I in God’s stead, who hath withheld from thee the fruit of the womb? And she said, Behold my maid Bilhah, go in unto her; and she shall bear upon my knees, that I may also have children by her. And she gave him Bilhah her handmaid to wife: and Jacob went in unto her. And Bilhah conceived, and bare Jacob a son.”
Consider the turmoil in Solomon’s life because of his multiple wives — Ecclesiastes 7:26 says, “And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her.” I Kings 11:1-4 says, “But king Solomon loved many strange women, together with the daughter of Pharaoh, women of the Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Zidonians, and Hittites; Of the nations concerning which the LORD said unto the children of Israel, Ye shall not go in to them, neither shall they come in unto you: for surely they will turn away your heart after their gods: Solomon clave unto these in love. And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines: and his wives turned away his heart. For it came to pass, when Solomon was old, that his wives turned away his heart after other gods: and his heart was not perfect with the LORD his God, as was the heart of David his father.”
So because of this constant failure and turmoil in the homes of Old Testament leaders, God has given specific instruction to the New Testament church and its leaders (both pastors and deacons). For the bishop or pastor, the instruction is in I Timothy 3:1-7, “This is a true saying, If a man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work. A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach; Not given to wine, no striker, not greedy of filthy lucre; but patient, not a brawler, not covetous; One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity; (For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?) Not a novice, lest being lifted up with pride he fall into the condemnation of the devil. Moreover he must have a good report of them which are without; lest he fall into reproach and the snare of the devil.”
For the deacons, the instruction is given in I Timothy 3:8-14, “Likewise must the deacons be grave, not doubletongued, not given to much wine, not greedy of filthy lucre; Holding the mystery of the faith in a pure conscience. And let these also first be proved; then let them use the office of a deacon, being found blameless. Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things. Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well. For they that have used the office of a deacon well purchase to themselves a good degree, and great boldness in the faith which is in Christ Jesus. These things write I unto thee, hoping to come unto thee shortly.”
That is God’s instruction for the church today, and it was always His perfect will for man. You will notice that it does not say, “If a man was divorced and remarried before he was saved, then none of the above applies.” The reason is that divorce, and then remarriage while a person’s husband or wife is still alive is committing adultery. Romans 7:2,3 says, “For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.”
When a person commits adultery, it is a reproach that, in man’s eyes, will never be taken away, even though God obviously forgives the repentant sinner of such. Proverbs 6:32,33 says, “But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul. A wound and dishonour shall he get; and his reproach shall not be wiped away.”
With other sins, you can make restitution, and regain respect with your fellow man. If you steal from him, you can repay him double, or four/five times the amount of which you stole. Exodus 22:1-7 says, “If a man shall steal an ox, or a sheep, and kill it, or sell it; he shall restore five oxen for an ox, and four sheep for a sheep. If a thief be found breaking up, and be smitten that he die, there shall no blood be shed for him. If the sun be risen upon him, there shall be blood shed for him; for he should make full restitution; if he have nothing, then he shall be sold for his theft. If the theft be certainly found in his hand alive, whether it be ox, or ass, or sheep; he shall restore double. If a man shall cause a field or vineyard to be eaten, and shall put in his beast, and shall feed in another man’s field; of the best of his own field, and of the best of his own vineyard, shall he make restitution. If fire break out, and catch in thorns, so that the stacks of corn, or the standing corn, or the field, be consumed therewith; he that kindled the fire shall surely make restitution. If a man shall deliver unto his neighbour money or stuff to keep, and it be stolen out of the man’s house; if the thief be found, let him pay double.” For these crimes, you can repay the one that you have wronged, and repay him more than he lost. He thus sees that you have indeed a changed life by the grace of God.
But in the case of committing adultery with his wife, there is nothing that you can ever repay him to correct the wrong that you have done. Proverbs 6:29-35 says, “So he that goeth in to his neighbour’s wife; whosoever toucheth her shall not be innocent. Men do not despise a thief, if he steal to satisfy his soul when he is hungry; But if he be found, he shall restore sevenfold; he shall give all the substance of his house. But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul. A wound and dishonour shall he get; and his reproach shall not be wiped away. For jealousy is the rage of a man: therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance. He will not regard any ransom; neither will he rest content, though thou givest many gifts.”
On top of committing adultery with his wife, if she divorces him and marries you, then there is no way that he can ever get his wife back, either. Deuteronomy 24:3,4 says, “And if the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement, and giveth it in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house; or if the latter husband die, which took her to be his wife; Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after that she is defiled.”
The Bible is clear in regard to what God expects of New Testament church leaders. “A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach; Not given to wine, no striker, not greedy of filthy lucre; but patient, not a brawler, not covetous; One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity; (For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?) Not a novice, lest being lifted up with pride he fall into the condemnation of the devil. Moreover he must have a good report of them which are without…”
In regard to David, he had a good desire — that of building a house (a temple) for the Lord, but God would not let him do that. Because David was so blessed, Nathan did not even pray about it, he just told David to go ahead and build it. II Samuel 7:1-5 says, “And it came to pass, when the king sat in his house, and the LORD had given him rest round about from all his enemies; That the king said unto Nathan the prophet, See now, I dwell in an house of cedar, but the ark of God dwelleth within curtains. And Nathan said to the king, Go, do all that is in thine heart; for the LORD is with thee. And it came to pass that night, that the word of the LORD came unto Nathan, saying, Go and tell my servant David, Thus saith the LORD, Shalt thou build me an house for me to dwell in?”
In the same way, many men who are serving God faithfully in their present place in life, begin to have a good desire — that of pastoring a church. I Timothy 3:1, “This is a true saying, If a man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work.” Sometimes it is God’s will, and sometimes, like David, God has to say, “It is a good desire, but it is not for you to do.” I Chronicles 22:7-10 says, “And David said to Solomon, My son, as for me, it was in my mind to build an house unto the name of the LORD my God: But the word of the LORD came to me, saying, Thou hast shed blood abundantly, and hast made great wars: thou shalt not build an house unto my name, because thou hast shed much blood upon the earth in my sight. Behold, a son shall be born to thee, who shall be a man of rest; and I will give him rest from all his enemies round about: for his name shall be Solomon, and I will give peace and quietness unto Israel in his days. He shall build an house for my name; and he shall be my son, and I will be his father; and I will establish the throne of his kingdom over Israel for ever.”
We must learn from the example of Nathan, that just because people are being blessed of God, does not mean that God wants them to take leadership positions or take upon themselves leadership of special projects for God. These people are blessed doing what they are presently doing, and should remain humble and continue on in those types of ministries. Notice how David takes the news humbly, and does not get angry with the prophet for telling him what God’s perfect will is. II Samuel 7:17-26 says, “According to all these words, and according to all this vision, so did Nathan speak unto David. Then went king David in, and sat before the LORD, and he said, Who am I, O Lord GOD? and what is my house, that thou hast brought me hitherto? And this was yet a small thing in thy sight, O Lord GOD; but thou hast spoken also of thy servant’s house for a great while to come. And is this the manner of man, O Lord GOD? And what can David say more unto thee? for thou, Lord GOD, knowest thy servant. For thy word’s sake, and according to thine own heart, hast thou done all these great things, to make thy servant know them. Wherefore thou art great, O LORD God: for there is none like thee, neither is there any God beside thee, according to all that we have heard with our ears. And what one nation in the earth is like thy people, even like Israel, whom God went to redeem for a people to himself, and to make him a name, and to do for you great things and terrible, for thy land, before thy people, which thou redeemedst to thee from Egypt, from the nations and their gods? For thou hast confirmed to thyself thy people Israel to be a people unto thee for ever: and thou, LORD, art become their God. And now, O LORD God, the word that thou hast spoken concerning thy servant, and concerning his house, establish it for ever, and do as thou hast said. And let thy name be magnified for ever, saying, The LORD of hosts is the God over Israel: and let the house of thy servant David be established before thee.”
You have a good desire, that of pastoring a church; but I pray that you will humbly see that you do not meet God’s qualifications for it, and will gladly serve Him in positions which He does allow for your life.